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.Clothes are super important to attracting women, justlike big breasts are to men.(Hey I know it s perverse, but I didn t make up these rules!).No, you do not have to walk around like some 70's disco asshole with lots of fancy goldchains hanging off your neck.In fact this is the worst thing that you can do.That strying way too hard and is ridiculously obvious.All you need to do is make sure that youstay abreast of the latest casual fashions and keep 90% of your wardrobe safely withinthese bounds.I m not going to tell you exactly how to dress because fashions changeand that sort of information gets dated fast.Go take a peek at the GQ or Playboywebsites ( www.gq.com or www.playboy.com ) for an idea of what the latest styles arelooking like.The key thought here is to always endeavor to look good.the problemwith most guys is that they tend to dress up only when they know they re going outsomewhere and there s likely to be some single women hanging around.Otherwise theydress like they do on the job at the steel mill.(Note: and if you re a white collar guy,lose the suit when you re not at work.they re only to be worn at appropriate formalevents like weddings and funerals or while on the job.Otherwise they mark you as eithera mobster or a Secret Service agent).Unfortunately, Murphy s Law states that the best opportunities to meet womenwill only show up when you least expect it, like when you re out at the store buying a sixpack.There s that hot chick standing in line next to you and you re doing your imitationof a stinking, unshaven bum today.Wonderful.Always seems to happen that way,(Chap 3 -- Pg.56)Without EmbarrassmentThe Male Dominance Scale Exposeddoesn t it? But when you go out to the clubs looking fine the good chances never seemto come along, do they? Plus the competition in bars is absurd.if you re not one of thebig strong  pretty boys you don t so much as get a second look from most of the womenthere.Your best chances pop up in every day life.That means that you must alwaysdress in a stylish, but casual, manner.Don t let it look like you re trying too hard, butdon t be a rag john either.Stay somewhere in between.Balance! Remember, stylishdress is the trademark of the high status male.Women will  read your dressing signalsfor clues about your ranking.They can size you up and file you away as either a Playeror a Loser in just a matter of seconds.And once they do, there s no changing categories without a big effort on yourpart.So be aware that you need to make that critical first impression as a Player, rightawayAs a final nail in this particular coffin, did you ever notice how a lot of marriedguys end up looking like overgrown 10 year old boys because of the way they redressed? Yes, I said dressed.After two kids and thirty extra pounds, their wives havegradually taken to buying most of their clothes for them via Christmas & birthday gifts.Don t think there isn t a method to their madness.they make a point of keeping theirmen sealed in cheap k-mart shirts with goofy patterns and mismatched pants.They dothis in order to send very deliberate  stay away signals to other women -- knowing justhow put-off any potential competitors will be to their husbands doofus wardrobes.Theclever and crafty wives know that -- just as the proper clothes make the man -- the wrongclothes will completely drag him out of contention.Probably without the dumb ass evenknowing it.Nuff said.TWO  Show that You re Normal, Harmless and Creative.One of the majorworries that women have when being advanced upon by a man they ve never met beforeis determining whether or not he s a psycho.I mean a seriously dangerous bastard.Signs of a twisted personality include things like a complete lack of any sense of humor,disheveled hair and clothes, or any kind of incoherent mumblings.A guy who seems too(Chap 3 -- Pg.57)Without EmbarrassmentThe Male Dominance Scale Exposedslick and polished (a phoney liar) is a warning flag too.This is a qualifying test that youhave to pass right away or you will not be given a chance to work any of your seductivemagic.I trust that you ve managed to stay out of mental wards for most of your life or atthe very least are attentively taking your medication every day, so this shouldn t be toomuch of a problem for you, right?Showing a bit of imagination and whimsy in your light-hearted approach is a goodway to score points too.Again, there s nothing specific I can tell you to do here, you justhave to learn how to react to the situation you find yourself in with a touch ofresourcefulness.Think.assume the dominant male attitude you wish to convey beforeyou speak.Also, try not to use the opportunity of meeting a woman as a launching padfor one of your dissertations on how the government is secretly test-flying capturedUFO s in Nevada -- at least not until around the third date when she knows you re justkidding around.You are, aren t you? In other words, stick to normal conversationaltopics, ok?Hey, here s a sly little greeting trick that will make a subliminalgreat first impression on any woman.In situations where you re beingformally introduced by a third party (like in a business setting) you mayhave an opportunity to shake a woman s hand.There s a right and wrongway to do this.Assuming she s foxy and worth playing for, here s the rightway: First, make sure that your hand fully engages hers until the websbetween your thumbs and index fingers touch (no wimpy, submissive male-style limp wrist handshakes.ee-gad!); grasp firmly but don t squeeze hard(like you would do with a man in the old  I ll-crush-your-puny-fuckin-hand power handshake competition).Then (this is the best part).verysubtly, while maintaining eye contact and smiling, turn your hand veryslowly and slightly in a clockwise direction to the right so that her hand isabove yours with your palm turned upwards (instead of side-by-sidevertically the way they started out).Hold on gently for a few seconds, thenrelease her hand and let it slide out of yours while you remain perfectly(Chap 3 -- Pg.58)Without EmbarrassmentThe Male Dominance Scale Exposedstill.Why women get all turned on by this (well, impressed anyway) Idon t know, but I suspect that it has to do with the way in which theshining Knight takes hold of the maiden s hand before kissing it (her handabove his, knuckles up).Chivalry bub! A fantasy.It s vaguely intriguingand suggestive, and puts you in an immediate positive light that separatesyou from all the other clueless schmucks she s met today who either gaveher the  squishy fishy or  bone-crusher greeting.See how you ve got to be thinking all the time in order to play the seduction gamelike a pro.Stay frosty and remember to do the little things properly.You have to build aseduction brick by brick.and think of the first brick that you lay (your first impression)as your all-important cornerstone.Remember, first impressions have nuclearimportance when it comes to meeting and seducing women -- if you start out wrong, youare almost never able to recover without a huge effort.So save yourself the agony offrustration and do it right from the start.This will set up your next play.THREE  Be a cool, relaxed flirt.A dominant male is calm and in control,right? So a passive,  got-my-shit-together approach is always better than a frantic,nervous one.Of course, you can t act completely aloof unless you re an famous athleteor celebrity of some kind, in which case your reputation has preceded you and done allthe preliminary work of seduction in advance [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]